After 23 years of Dil Se, I chanced upon the movie’s title song on YouTube. I felt a jolt in my heart. I felt as if someone punched me in the stomach and sucked the air out of my body. I have since been hearing this song in a loop, more like watching it in a loop. The video is what breathed life to an otherwise ‘any other’ romantic ballad. The soul of the song is not its lyrics or music but the way the director envisioned it. There was an imprint of Mani Ratnam’s vision throughout the song. It took the wisdom of years to decipher the story this song has been telling since it went on air.
The song ‘Dil Se’ starts with a police siren and men in uniform guarding the city against unseen dangers. There are barbed wires and fire everywhere. The army is marching on the streets, reiterating its iron-clad presence in the area. The picturization is noteworthy of the human tendency to guard the past. The past that pricks us wants to destroy us and keeps reminding us of our pathetic state, yet we keep protecting it with an iron will. We not only want to safeguard the devil of our past but also dance with it. Our heart keeps wailing for freedom from the past, yet we ensure to curb its wail.
Manisha Koirala running in the lanes of the cursed city is every one of us. We keep running from the hauntings. We are the hunted and we are the hunters stuck in the midst of firing. Just like Manisha running away from a deeply agonising history, we also every day run from ourselves. When we wake up in the morning we can feel the weight of the past on our bosom but we refuse to let go of it. We fear the change; we fear the acceptance of what made us. We are not a consequence of a thunderstorm but a series of actions whether well-intentioned or circumstantial. We refuse to acknowledge this. All we do is get up in the morning and pretend to be happy and start running an endless chase much like Manisha in the song.
And then something beautiful happens. Like Manisha’s Shahrukh, we get someone who shows us the beauty in ruins. Someone who runs along with us guards us, protects us, saves us from the chest-thumping devil of the past, and makes sure it grabs us when we fall. When all the fingers point at us, it wraps us in the warmth of its arms. In a beautiful sequence, Shahrukh’s finger catches Manisha’s bangle that she purposely breaks to move away from him. It speaks so much about us. We intentionally move away from hope and faith to marinate in suffering. We assume that we are undeserving of love. But the reality is that each one of us is born to love, to be loved. In our saddest moments of despair, we push away the hope which crawls to us in the smoothest possible way.
Shahrukh tries to convince Manisha that they are the leaves that departed in autumn and after so many seasons they have regrown to reunite again. He explains to her how pain and love are interrelated eternally. Love is the cause of pain and we have to believe in the power of love. Shahrukhs of our destroyed lives want to rescue us. They are watching every action of ours in a bid to save us from paying homage to our past every day. Unbeknownst to us, they are our guarding angels who offer their helping hand to us whenever we are sad and lost. Yet, we chose to remain ungrateful to them because our sufferings have made us bitter and numb.
However, Manisha does give an honest try to triumph her past. We see children running on the streets, a symbol of excessive happiness and innocence, a symbol of goodwill and freedom. Finally, she throws open the door of her stoned heart to Shahrukh. He tries to bring back happiness in her life in a certain measure. There is cheerfulness, unabated glee, hugs, and joy written all over in this sequence. Shahrukh acknowledges that a relationship is bondage where there are stone walls and barbed wires. Yet the vines grow, reminding us of the never-ending tales of love reenacted by different characters in the world at all times. Unhappiness in the heart is vibrant but remember it keeps coming and going. We are but victims of birth and death, the only certainties of this incertitude life.
Life and its experiences humbled me. Travelling made me wiser. Life’s experiences do make you a little better than before, as well as a little bitter than before. I used to think that better and bitter are choices, but they are not. They add up to your life, making you everything that you don’t desire. You have to accept yourself and at the same time be kind to yourself. Acceptance of what you’ve become is your way to acknowledge that the past is done and dusted. There is no point rolling in the dust and getting dirtier every passing day, move past the past.